James "Jim" Kilby is the founding Pastor of Harvest Christian
Fellowship in Dayton, Ohio. He is also the Founder and President of Harvest
Youth Ministries, a large non-denominational youth outreach organization with
two huge teen hangouts, The Cellar in Moraine, Ohio and The Attic in Kettering,
Ohio. He is 45 years old, happily married with eight children and one grandchild.
Jim is also a retired Air Force officer. During his Air Force career, Jim
worked as a program manager on some of the coolest and most classified systems
in the world; such as the F-15, F-16, F-117, and even the awesome F-22 Raptor!
Jim is definitely not your typical pastor. Not raised in the church, he rarely
entered one as a young man. His father abandoned his mother and his little
sister before his second birthday. He was raised by his very young mother
and a line of several stepfathers. Along the way, his mother had two more
children, making Jim the eldest of four.
For much of his life, Jim lived in virtual poverty. His family frequently
found themselves on State or Federal assistance. His mother's career as a
country and western singer kept her away from the house much of the time.
The family often moved from state to state--and the kids moved from school
to school. Their home was a difficult environment for all the children. As
the eldest child, Jim was routinely left to care for his younger brothers
and sisters. Although incredibly difficult, this task instilled in him a deep-rooted
sense of responsibility. It's also where he began to learn the leadership
skills that would later make him successful in the military.
With a lack of supervision and no spiritual foundation, drugs and alcohol
helped Jim get himself into trouble with school officials and with the police
as he neared the age of 13. At 15, Jim fathered his first son... and because
of the transient nature of the next 23 years of his life, a son he didn't
know existed until Jim was 38!
Just before his 16th birthday, Jim's mother sent him to live with a step-father
in Oklahoma. With "male-supervision," Jim cleaned-up his act some,
but after returning to live with his mother a year later, he again found himself
in trouble with the police. After an argument with his mother, he moved out
on his own at 17. He subsequently dropped-out of high-school and took a job
as a construction laborer.
Constantly drinking, using drugs, and running with a very rough crowd, at
17, Jim began to wonder how he had slipped so far. The realization that his
life was on the wrong track often brought back thoughts of a profession of
faith he had made during vacation bible school at the age of twelve. While
attending the week long school, Jim accepted the fact that he was a sinner
and prayed to receive Jesus' as his Lord and Savior. Still, without any real
Christian upbringing, he was at a loss for what to do. Looking back, he believes
the Holy Spirit led him to act upon a dream planted in his heart by his mother
many years before. In a moment of amazing foresight, she told Jim she believed
he would one day be an officer in the United States Air Force. Knowing he
had to make a dramatic change, one day Jim quietly walked into the office
of an Air Force recruiter. With the military's help, Jim received at GED and
after requesting and receiving several enlistment waivers due to his run-ins
with the law, entered the Air Force in early 1980.
Although a hard worker, Jim's off duty antics had him facing courts martial
proceedings no less than four times during his first tour of duty. Finally,
the military's rules and regulations helped Jim get his career on track, but
his private life was quickly on the wrong path again. Inside he was still
a very angry young man. After marrying a young lady he got pregnant, Jim's
antics off-duty finally calmed down substantially. Still, his marriage was
built on a very weak foundation. Soon after the birth of their second child,
the marriage was in serious trouble. Caught in severe depression, Jim's first
wife made a serious attempt to take her own life. It was during the aftermath
of this suicide attempt and the subsequent divorce that Jim finally sought
the peace and love of Jesus Christ.
After finding a church and with mentoring from several Christian men, God
put Jim's life back on-track. Still, he had left three children, a wife, and
many others in his path of destruction. With his heavenly Father as the model,
Jim works hard to be an active father to all of his children.
In 1992, Jim met and married the love of his life, the former Jill Brensinger
of Waldorf, Maryland and began work finishing his undergraduate degree at
night school. While stationed at the Pentagon, Jim completed his bachelor's
degree; finishing with a perfect 4.0 GPA. Later, he applied for an appointment
to Air Force Officer Training School, and was selected. On June 22, 1994 he
turned-in his hard-fought Master Sergeant stripes for the gold bars of a second
lieutenant. With the help of the Lord, Jim had finally achieved the dream
his mother had planted in him so many years before. He was an Air Force officer!
Funny though, it wouldn't be long before God would ask Jim to give up his
military career, in favor of reaching out to youth for Christ. Following that
call, Jim founded Harvest Youth Ministries in 1998. In February of 2000, Captain
Jim Kilby resigned his Air Force commission and retired to pursue ministry
on a full-time basis. Under his leadership, that organization is still growing
and reaches tens of thousands of youth each year. In October 2006, Jim founded
Harvest Christian Fellowship in Xenia, Ohio. On April 1st of 2007, the church
grew into its current 20,000 square foot facility in Kettering, which previously
was a notorious nightclub and doubles as the Attic Teen Center.
Jim is quick to point out that his Lord and Savior deserves all the credit
for his transformation from high school drop-out to college graduate and beyond.
His current goals include continuing to grow closer to Christ as he works
hard to balance his public ministry with being a spiritual leader, mentor
and friend to his wife and his children. The Kilby family currently resides
in Beavercreek, Ohio.